OH MY GOD I JUST REALIZED STH when I saw your post with "j-boy <3" that made me think about Jesse...
Then I realized : your perfect guy is a J-boy as well as my darkest guy was, and my perfect guy is an A-boy as well as your darkest guy was !
GOSH WE'RE SO CONNECTED :pom:
aw ! I had realized for the “J-boy” but not for the “A-boy”.. :’)